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-Tengo miedo
-¿miedo a qué?
-A equivocarme; a lo que pueda pasar con mis hijos; a perder lo que ya he ganado; a los reclamos
de la familia; al pleito legal; a la agresión; a todo y a nada.

Esa era la conversación con ella. Ya eran muchos años de matrimonio, no todos infelices por
supuesto, aún recordaba con añoranza los días de tranquilidad, mientras se preguntaba sin
respuesta ¿Cómo fue que llegaron a ese punto? ¿Cómo fue que las cosas cambiaron tanto?
La situación no es para menos, especialmente, si cuando celebramos una boda deseamos por
protocolo que la felicidad se apodere de los cónyuges por el resto de sus días. Nuestras
expectativas sobre el matrimonio son comúnmente que siempre permanezca igual, que nada
cambie en la pareja y que envejezcan juntos. Evidentemente duele cuando no es así.
Mas la maravillosa vida nos sorprende haciendo de nuestras pobres expectativas, una prueba
clara de que los seres humanos apenas estamos en el proceso de aprendizaje y ella en cambio
tiene las verdades bien sabidas.

Lo primero a tomar en cuenta es que un divorcio o separación no es bueno, ni mucho menos
malo, sencillamente es una experiencia neutra y absolutamente indispensable para la evolución
de quién la vive.
Si estas en la prerrogativa entre separarte o no, o bien ya tomaste la decisión te propongo que
consideres los siguientes puntos:

No te separes hasta que ya hayas hecho TODO por tu pareja.

Quizás estés pensando que la otra persona no merece nada de ti, sin embargo hacer todo lo que
este tu poder para servir a tu pareja, hará que te puedas ir sin ese horrible “¿Y si hubiera hecho?.
Hacer todo por la pareja, hará que te puedas quedar con la relación mejorada o que te puedas ir
sin arrepentimientos.

Sepárate en paz.

Si te separas en guerra, probablemente atraigas la guerra contigo, porque seamos realistas, tu
también provocaste esa guerra. Es común el deseo de querer huir inmediatamente de lo que
molesta o duele, pero salir corriendo del conflicto suele provocar que nos lo llevemos a dónde
vayamos. Lo mejor es dejar los reclamos, los remordimientos, las culpas o las venganzas, antes
de cerrar el ciclo.

Aprende la lección

No importa que aún no estés seguro de tomar la decisión de separarte, lo que si es seguro es que
la relación como está no te hace feliz. Reconoce todo lo que tú hiciste para que la relación este así
y cambia, cambiando tu estas en posibilidad de mejorar esa relación o que la siguiente sea
diferente.

Perdona

Y si te hizo daño ¿qué? tú también le hiciste daño, quizás sin darte cuenta. Todo lo que la otra
persona hizo o dejo de hacer no fue para ti, fue porque para eso le alcanzaba. Si te dio dolor fue porque simplemente eso es lo que traía dentro, no te podía dar algo mejor porque no lo tenía y
nadie puede dar lo que no tiene.

Agradece

La pareja que tienes o tuviste es la correcta y perfecta para enseñarte la lección que necesitabas,
no había nadie mejor para ti. Tu no te la sacaste en una rifa ¿verdad? esa pareja fue producto de
tu elección. Así que agradécele todo lo maravilloso que vivieron juntos y mas aún, agradécele todo
lo que dolió, recuerda que la medicina siempre sabe feo pero si no te la tomas no te curas. Si
hubo agresión reconoce que era la dosis necesaria para que tú salieras de la inercia que provoca
la rutina, al final hasta una patada en el trasero te ayuda a salir adelante.

Recurre a un profesional

Siempre que vives una experiencia nueva, existe el miedo natural de lo desconocido. No dejes de
pedir ayuda a un profesional para que tu experiencia tenga un buen resultado. No permitas que la
pena o el orgullo te impidan atender tu salud emocional, o peor aún des como pretexto la falta de
dinero o la falta de tiempo para no solucionar lo más importante en tu vida: tú. Hoy en día existen
muchos tipos de terapeutas o acompañantes que te pueden atender, desde la psicología
tradicional hasta biomagnetistas, consteladores, tanatólogos o coaches de vida.

Si te gustó este articulo y consideras que es útil para alguien mas, compartelo.

Que tengas un excelente dia

Artículo realizado por la Coach Vanessa Padmir

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